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Sunday, November 27, 2011

Let the Christmas Thoughts Begin


THE COLOR OF CHRISTMAS


I recently viewed a delightful video sent to me from a friend of mine. You may have seen it. The video, titled “Colors,” emphasizes the idea that we should be grateful for the gift of being able to see the world in color as opposed to merely in black and white. How very true. There is beautiful music playing throughout the clip as dramatic scene scapes present themselves on the screen. The photographs, ranging from trees, to wild animals, to city images are shown first in black and white. They are slowly and subtly drenched in brilliant true to life color. The contrast between the same picture presented in black and white and then in color is magnificent and certainly drives the main point home. Color adds a whole new dynamic, palatable, and pleasurable dimension to the way we perceive our universe.

As I pondered the significance of this lovely video, I began to see a connection to the early days of my youth. I had what I consider a pleasant enough childhood. A daughter of the 1950's my life was relatively simple and stress free. I enjoyed playing outdoors with the neighbor children. We climbed trees, built forts, played jump rope, hop scotch, dodgeball, hide n seek, red light green light and tag. We had fun family holidays, and even school was “o.k.” I attended church and had a concept of a rather historical Jesus. There was no real teaching, however, or at least not that I understood of a personal relationship with the Lord or of what it would mean to be born again.

Please don't misunderstand. I am extremely grateful for the religious training which I had. We were familiarized with the gospels and learned the ten commandments. We were taught basic principals of morality. We were even given age appropriate specific examples and scenarios of how to apply these precepts in our lives. This instruction, I believe, laid the groundwork for my adult spiritual conversion and acceptance of Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. However, the rules and regulations which I learned as a child were not sufficient alone, in and of themselves, to comprehend and experience the love of my gracious Savior.

It would be much later on, after the birth of my first precious son, that I realized that I needed a new depth of love and grace in order to minister to my child. It was then that the Lord led me to the right people and, for me, the right church where I would learn how to be born again. I was baptized in water and the journey began. I drank in chapters of the Bible at a sitting. I had never actually read the Bible for myself. I was so hungry and thirsty for the Spirit of God and He was gracious to fill me to overflowing. I was introduced to the concept of “real praise and worship” for the first time. The Bible describes this worship as that which occurs “in Spirit and in truth.” As a young girl, I had sung rote hymns with no real warmth or understanding in my soul. There again, no criticism intended, as my heart had just not yet been baptized with God's magnanimous love. I am deeply thankful, however, that I had some exposure to Godly music as a child.

A fascinating phenomenon occurred after I accepted the Lord and began growing in Him. Like the pictures in the video I described earlier in this writing, for the first time I began to see life in vivid color. The joy which flooded and continues to flood my soul gave me a whole new perspective on day to day existence. I came to understand the term “seeing the world through rose colored glasses.” I began to feel as though I was beholding my universe through the filter of those rose colored glasses. Every aspect of life and every person I encountered took on a new brilliance. Even during times of trial and tribulation, being able to turn to God in prayer and worship brought tides of happiness and joy. In all circumstances, whether negative or positive, life still seemed lovely as I gazed into my Savior's face.
So as I viewed my friend's video recently I was reminded of the contrast between my experience as a literal child and my new life as “a child of the King.” Life as a little girl for me was good. And I thank the Lord for a safe normal passage into adulthood. However, it could be considered as merely black and white when compared to the glorious color of my present life as a born again Spirit filled Christian.

Christmas time is the celebration of God's gift of His Son to the entire world. The Lord sent His Son to be a sacrificial Lamb to die on the cross as an atonement for the sins of mankind. Jesus rose from the dead and is seated at the right hand of His Father. He longs for every soul to receive His gift of eternal life. His desire is that all would accept Him, repent of their sins, be born again and filled with his Spirit. (2 Peter 3:9 and I Timothy 2:4) He came to give us life and life in more abundance. (John 10:10) He wants us to see life, not in black and white, not even in just natural color, but in the glowing, brilliant, shimmering supernatural hue of His Spirit.


This Christmas let's remember that the most valuable gift we could ever give a loved one, friend, or even a stranger is the gift of Jesus Christ. Whether we are called to intercede in prayer for the lost or to follow the Holy Spirit's leading in witnessing to others, let's do our best to make this Christmas meaningful. Perhaps the Lord would lead us to bring a plate of cookies to an unsaved neighbor, or visit someone in the hospital. These acts of kindness could soften hearts and open doors to speak the truth of the salvation message to those who need God's love in their lives. Let's seize the opportunity which this yuletide season brings to share the glorious joy of our Lord's everlasting love.

By Cathy Friberg

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

All Soul's Day

We have heard it said in many different ways,  If we love someone, we will grieve when that love is lost.
All Souls’ Day   commemorates those who have died, and  people throughout the world    celebrate or commemorate the dead, through a beautiful variety of traditions  from placing lights on grave sites, having special meals, dancing, singing, and other ceremonies.
On the Sunday closest to November 2nd,  in the church I attend, we gather around the communion table and our pastor leads us in a prayer,  and then we are invited to say the name out loud  of  anyone we have lost during the  year.  As I stand there with my eyes closed, I hear the different voices around me speaking the names of people, some I had known, others unfamiliar.  It always takes courage for me to add my voice saying a name, feeling self-conscious about my voice  cracking, and  revealing signs of emotion.  I think I am  slowly becoming more comfortable with myself as I age, and am less  preoccupied with, “me”, as I think   I am getting closer to allowing  myself to be more  present in the meaningful display of  love , loss, and gratitude for precious  memories .

On All Souls’ Day,  I light a candle at home and let it burn for several hours .  The act of lighting a candle and saying a prayer about the people I have loved and lost, brings me a sense of comfort. The burning candle giving off light reminds me of the message it symbolizes; God’s love and presence.
The term “Sorrowful Joy”, was used by a speaker I heard at a conference this last year.  She reminded us that if we have loved someone, when they die we will feel loss .   I know I need to hear this message  again and again.  I  need to embrace the wonderful and loving memories I  have of  people who have  died and to be  grateful to have had them in my life.   
A  pastor   once told  us how he  visualizes the people he  has loved and lost,  as being part of his congregation, and he even places them  up in the balcony.  He shared that he looks at them and feels their presence, caring, and encouragement.   I love his image.
I like the idea of having my own special thoughts of the people I have loved and  have died, and  I have painted  the picture in my mind of them  being gathered around a beautiful lake  having a wonderful and lively picnic on the shores among beautiful, tall pine trees.
When I competed in a swim meet a few months ago, I placed all of my people whom I have loved and lost, up in the stands cheering me on.
Now don’t worry about me becoming too delusional,  it’s just my way of dealing with the reality of loss in a way I can relate, and which brings me a sense of acceptance and gratitude for their love in a lighter and playful manner.
Do I need a special day to think about the people I have lost in my life?  No, but it certainly doesn’t hurt me to be reminded that nothing stays the same, that if I have loved, then I will experience grief and loss when a member of my family, a friend, or a pet, dies.  It can also serve as a reminder to live each day as fully as I can, and to try and not take my family, friends, or my cat, Miss Malcom, for granted.  To tell them often how much  I love them,  and value them being a part of my life.
Having my faith and knowing that meditation and prayer are always there for me to hold on to, brings me comfort and hope.  I do believe that God meets us where we are, and that we do grow from tears and joy.  I feel blessed.
The Buddhists reminds us:  All things are impermanent
                                             They arise and they pass away
                                                      To be in harmony with this truth
                                                                Brings great happiness
I want to share a short paragraph from a great book on spiritual advice, “A Tree Full of Angels” by Macrina Wiederkehr:
“A wonderful gift that human beings possess is the ability to feast even on memories from the past.  Precious moments from our past that were not understood or cherished at the time can be gathered up, like crumbs, for nourishment in our later years.  Thus, lost moments are found again.  They are full of grace and can heal us even now. 
They can be harvested and carried home into our barns.” 
Another beautiful message:
Jesus said:
“Do not let your hearts be troubled.  Trust in God; trust also in me.
 In my Father’s house are many rooms. . . .
I am going there to prepare a place for you.
 And if I go and prepare a place for you,
I will come back and take you to be with me
that you also may be where I am . . .
 the way and the truth and the life.”     
 John 14

Blessings,
Connie I. Clark